{"id":35884,"date":"2025-02-08T13:48:00","date_gmt":"2025-02-08T12:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/?p=35884"},"modified":"2025-02-08T13:55:39","modified_gmt":"2025-02-08T12:55:39","slug":"detenerse-hoy-para-decidir-manana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/2025\/02\/08\/detenerse-hoy-para-decidir-manana\/","title":{"rendered":"Detenerse hoy para decidir ma\u00f1ana"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

He estado unos d\u00edas de vacaciones m\u00e1s all\u00e1 del c\u00edrculo polar \u00e1rtico y vivir la noche polar es lo mejor para conectar con una misma. O\u00edr tu respiraci\u00f3n competir con el viento, obligarte a caminar cuando la nieve te llega a las rodillas y embelesarse con el hipn\u00f3tico baile de las auroras boreales te recuerda la obligaci\u00f3n de elegir bien tus prioridades <\/strong>en cualquier espacio-tiempo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No se deber\u00edan tomar decisiones en caliente, hay que detenerse para bajar la temperatura (la tuya y la de tu entorno). No hace falta estar a -8\u00ba, pero s\u00ed dejar pasar el tiempo que cada persona necesite para volver a tener ilusi\u00f3n y convencerse de que podr\u00e1 ser feliz de nuevo. Pueden pasar d\u00edas, semanas o medio a\u00f1o. Hay que tener paciencia. Coger perspectiva <\/strong>no siempre es f\u00e1cil, pero conviene si se quiere trazar un plan y que esa pausa se convierta en el empujocinto para continuar en el camino.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La inercia suele ser mala compa\u00f1era de viaje cuando te mantiene por derroteros de los que, pens\u00e1ndolo bien, quieres alejarte. Poner el piloto autom\u00e1tico es una soluci\u00f3n a corto plazo, pero no puede durar siempre porque no te deja ver tu meta<\/strong>. La tuya, no la de un algoritmo o la que tu entorno te asigne sin preguntarte. T\u00fa has de decidir y priorizar y, si has de detenerte para elegir mejor, hazlo. No es debilidad: el mundo seguir\u00e1 girando y (casi) nadie se dar\u00e1 cuenta de que te has bajado. El error ser\u00eda no dejar a un lado lo que te retiene donde no quieres estar porque te hunde en un pozo del que cada vez te costar\u00e1 m\u00e1s salir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Llevo varios meses d\u00e1ndole vueltas a c\u00f3mo salir de esa oscuridad. Empec\u00e9 2025 con la misma energ\u00eda con la que termin\u00e9 2024<\/a>, pero siento que mis pilas se empiezan a cargar. Lentamente y sin prisa porque mi pir\u00e1mide todav\u00eda necesita asentarse, voy vislumbrando hacia d\u00f3nde quiero ir<\/strong> y los pasos que voy a tener que dar para mi personal punto y aparte<\/a>. Ya te ir\u00e9 contando.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

He estado unos d\u00edas de vacaciones m\u00e1s all\u00e1 del c\u00edrculo polar \u00e1rtico y vivir la noche polar es lo mejor para conectar con una misma. O\u00edr tu respiraci\u00f3n competir con el viento, obligarte a caminar cuando la nieve te llega a las rodillas y embelesarse con el hipn\u00f3tico baile de las auroras boreales te recuerda […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[12],"class_list":["post-35884","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dm","tag-dmassm"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35884","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35884"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35884\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35892,"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35884\/revisions\/35892"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35884"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35884"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evasanagustin.com\/workaholic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35884"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}